Thursday, December 3, 2009

Parents Expectation, Children's Burden.Agree??or??Don't Agree??

      Parents always wanted their children to be good. They expect their children to be perfect in nearly every section..such as education, sports, social, even fashion. They wanted their children to be as clever as the Digi owner..as fit as national athletic..as handsome/ beautiful as the korean actor/ actress.Thus, parents always compare their children with other people, which i don't really agree and actually hates.
      Parents always have high expectation to their children and sometimes, it doesn't make any sense. They expect a small kid to be independence like an adult??If the kid refuse to do so.ends up with strips on the body(canned).
      Parents should not having high expectation on their children. They should have expect them through the children's abilities.We teenagers need more caring, loving and attention from the parents.Teenagers don't like to be judge or being scold like a dog or whatever. Parents should have spend more time with their children so that the children won't feel like abandoned or left out. Try to care about other subject other than education. Don't push too much in education or else..ends up a nerdy child.
(to be continue)

2 comments:

  1. um, i actually agree that some parents are like this..not all
    Different parents have different way of expressing their love for their children. Some are caring,loving..some are rude, and like to scold.
    But it doesn't mean they don't love their kids. Its just that their way of expressing their love is different than what we want and expect.
    All parents want their kids to be a successful person in life. That's why they are trying to push us hard. At the end of the day, we will know their motive of doing so.
    And..
    If we can't find love from our earthly father n mother, surely there is love from our heavenly father.
    He put us in our family with purpose. When we grow up to be a parents later on, our children also would not like us to treat them like this.
    This will lead us to a better family later in life..rite?
    Do not worry bro..He has his plan for us..great plan..always rely and have faith.
    Gbu ^.^

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  2. yeaah baby..i doesn't mean that they dont love their children..is like..they are pushing too much and making us feel like they are not..

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